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How To Deal With Negative Thoughts

by | Jan 5, 2022 | Everyday Health

The average Joe has over 6000 thoughts per day. It’d be almost impossible to ensure 100-percent of those thoughts were positive 100-percent of the time. That’s because negative thoughts are a normal part of life; they’re bound to pop up every now and then. When negative thoughts become so regular and overwhelming, they can contribute towards mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, stress and low self-esteem. And, while there’s no magical pill to clear negative thoughts from the mind, there are simple practices you can implement into your daily life. So, let’s find out how to deal with negative thoughts.

Bring awareness to your negative thoughts

You can’t work on something if you’re not aware it exists. So, becoming aware of your negative thoughts is the first step towards learning how to deal with them. Once you’ve learned how to recognise negative thoughts and thought patterns, you can identify how they’re affecting your emotions and behaviours. Observe your thoughts and ask yourself questions like; what purpose is this thought serving? How does the thought make you feel? Is this thought helpful?

Identify thought distortions

Have you ever been guilty of a little self-sabotage? Chances are that self-sabotage was the result of cognitive distortion. That is, an exaggerated pattern of thinking that isn’t based on facts. Thought distortions convince you to believe, typically negative, things about yourself without any truthful bearings. Common thought distortions include black and white thinking, filter thinking where you choose to only see the negative side of a situation, catastrophising, and personalising by assuming you are to blame for anything that goes wrong. When you learn to identify thought distortions, you put yourself in a position challenge them.

Challenge your negative thoughts

Negative thoughts can impact the way you view yourself, others and the world. When negative or distorted thoughts arise, consider whether these thoughts are accurate. Are you assuming the worst? Are you blaming yourself for something that isn’t truly your fault? Is there more to the story than your mind is making you believe? Is this really the worst that can happen? When you consider all facets of a situation, you enable your mind to calm and work through negative thoughts and perceived consequences.

Release judgement surrounding negative thoughts

No surprises here; your internal dialogue can be judgemental. With the constant desire to live up to expectations and compare yourself to others, there’s no wonder why the mind flows in a negative manner on occasion. And although letting go of judgement is no easy task, it will help you to move through negative thought patterns. One way to release judgement is to recognise it, observe it for a moment, then let it pass. Alternatively, for every negative judgment you have, try to find a positive quality, too. Make a game of it and before you know it, the positive thoughts will outweigh the negatives.

Reshape your thoughts

When faced with a negative thought, have a go at interpreting the thought in different ways. Are there more logical, realistic and positive ways to interpret the thought? It’s not about eliminating the thought altogether, but rather, shifting the focus to a positive light.

Boost your self-esteem

A lot of negative thoughts can stem from insecurities and low self-esteem. If you’re not feeling great about yourself, it’s unlikely you’re going to feel great about anything in general. By working on your self-esteem and focusing on your strengths, you’re putting yourself in a better position to unleash positivity in all its glory.

Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness or meditation is the practice of separating yourself from your thoughts and emotions while observing them from the outside without judgement. Through regular practice, mindfulness can help to build greater self-awareness, thus improving your capability to become more conscious of your thoughts

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